For my part, I cried all over my tumblr because I consider it a safe space where I can cry all over it and not have people judge me for it. But neh.
This is exactly what she is talking about. You don’t get to proclaim things in public and then assume a private atmosphere when you are challenged. You are using “safe space” as a silencing tactic. Knock it off.
May 2011
146 posts
party soft: emotional manipulation.it sounds pretty bad. I doubt that there is... →
partysoft.tumblr.com
i make shiny things: Not cool Urban Outfitters, not cool. →
imakeshinythings.tumblr.com
One of my lovely customers sent me a message today with this link.
And here is my United/World of Love line:
My heart sank a little bit. The World/United States of Love line that I created is one of the reasons that I was able to quit my full-time job. They even stole the…
graft versus host: The lump in my throat. →
graftversushost.tumblr.com
I wasn’t sure if I was going to keep writing here, but I have something to say about trans “activism” online, especially on Tumblr and where similar circles of people run. I’ll just focus on trans women in this post.
For me, and I’m going to take a safe guess that for vast majority of trans women…

